you may be trying to get your shit together. i know that at least for me, i try to solve all my problems at once. as a result, i end up not solving any of them. “this is the day i change for real!” i’ll say, and then a week later i will be right back where i started.
instead of implementing a lot of discipline, try keeping a journal of when you implement a little bit of discipline. “today, i am going to wake up on time without hitting snooze.” one goal, no more. if i can do this for a week, i’m already better off than i was before. and then i move on to the next goal.
this is kind of a tortoise-and-the-hare lesson, but maybe in a way you haven’t thought of. we are made of little victories, and the key is getting enough of them to realize that you have made a huge change by the end of a year or so.
if you’re like me, you have a ton of ideas an prototypes in the works. it’s very difficult to sustain one hundred ventures, and the ones that end up succeeding may be only about two or three. a friend of mine pointed something out to me recently over a bowl of ramen.
“i tend to go through cycles of interest. i’ll work on one project for a period of time, and then lose interest and move on to the next thing. this happens for a bit, and then maybe a month or so later, i’ll come back to that first thing i was working on.” how exciting! this is an orbit that functions on a longer scope than the daily routines we are used to. can you imagine if we had the scope to see how our interest wanes on a project only to be rekindled months later?
i love emergent systems. these are methods and processes that just sort of happen. my friend saw that the gets things done, but at a slower pace with wide breaks. imagine sitting in a kitchen. boil water for pasta, let bread bake, and make the pasta sauce. you don’t have to sit and watch the bread bake – you can walk away and work on something else and return when you need to.
similarly, notice that your interest is an orbiting thing. banging your head against a wall on a project traditionally is not helpful, and walking away is a great idea especially if you can bring fresh eyes to something else. by cultivating this method, you can have a continuous set of fresh eyes on your project, and soon you will have a fully cooked meal.
a system is a set of working parts. you are part of many systems, and you also have systems in place. your job is a system that uses your skills and pays you for it. you eating schedule is a system of keeping you nourished. basically, if there is any kind of process with multiple factors involved, it’s a kind of system. and this is thrilling, because of how many systems are in play at any given time.
i often think about creative systems. my problem is that i don’t have a lot of time to make the at that i’d like to make. i have to factor in schedule, audience, energy, and the presence of my muse. some things i can control, some things i can’t, and my ability to produce good work depends on the sustainability of my system.
currently i meet once a week with my friend jaron to record video and podcast interviews. we are both free on sundays, our interview subjects are free on sundays, and we have all the equipment to make it work. it is not a problem to meet weekly, since post-production time is so minimal. there is no friction at all in the process of producing this content, and thus it is a good system.
i don’t always finish writing books because i lose steam. this can also be viewed as a system problem. either i wasn’t motivated enough, didn’t have enough research, or didn’t outline enough time to sit down and actually write. national novel writing month (november) is a system that exists online, geared towards motivating writers to finish their book through social accountability and gamification. it’s a system that produces a manuscript, even if it’s terrible.
for you, i encourage you to write out systems that currently exist in your orbit, and if there are any ways you can tweak or refine them to better suit your goals. even better, can you invent a system of work that maximizes your creativity, your profits, or your happiness?
i’m into re-invention, but maybe a little bit too much. i throw my all into a project and then destroy it. i’ve started and ended so many blogs that i have a mess of domains and drafts that i will likely never go through. i have so many ideas that i end up hating the old one and tossing it into the wastebasket in hopes of making something new.
this process is a little bit frustrating, because it is hard for me to develop any kind of cohesive brand because i am shapeshifting so often. as i learn this about myself (i am currently 26) i am wondering if there is a way to accommodate my shapeshifting, or if there are any common threads in the history of work that i do.
one of my favorite artists keri smith pushed an idea on me that we are allowed to reinvent ourselves at any time. i’ve taken this to heart, and as a result have created this fluid identity that is a jack of all trades and master of none. it’s a hard place to be, but i know with certainty that i would not fit in anywhere else.
it’s like another taoist idea i read – that only the sages know the value of being useless. if you don’t fit into any of the pre-carved categories that exist (in terms of career) you are then tasked with pioneering a route of your own. and, in a world of accelerating change, i am hoping that my shapeshifting and inability to settle on a path will allow me to be agile and receptive to unheard of fields.